Chowing down on fish tacos, munching carpet, dining beneath the bridge, yodeling in the love canyon, lapping the labia — whatever you want to call it, cunnilingus is one of the staples of lesbian sex and hello — any sex involving a vagina! As the sheer plethora of slang goes to show, being able to tackle the tongue-wash is an essential tool for the queer girl to have in her… box. So why hit the lights when licking your lover? Of course, many lesbians have tried, but all of them have failed.

Researchers from Chapman University, Indiana University and the Kinsey Institute studied 52, Americans and found that 95 percent of straight men usually or always orgasm when sexually intimate with a partner whilst the same is true for only 65 percent of straight women — this is widely known as the orgasm gap. The study also found that 86 percent of lesbians usually or always orgasm. So, yes, those of us with a clit can orgasm. And we can orgasm a lot….

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